why it's crucial to get into the core issue???

[Artur Rybowicz]

The internet is full of quick solutions to any problem you mention. And you probably know by now that they do not work as promised. Why? simply, because they do not address the core issue of our human existence, they only touch the surface, show a tip of an iceberg and even if you try hard to implement them it make a little or now difference to your overall well-being.

Going to courses, lectures and events hosting great speakers, coaches and mentors can be very useful and profitable only under the condition that you are already well and on your way. Sure, they can inspire you, make you think about the change but there is a big gap between thinking about and actually doing it, you simply find yourself paralysed when it comes to act upon the premises you were thought. Why is it that way?, well, first great mentors are a way ahead and what seems to them a piece of cake is an unimaginable jump for you, and even if you get the courage to jump, you may find yourself sinking as soon as you touch the surface of the water, right? And are they there to give you a hand, rarely so, they are already gone even before you had jumped.

So what conclusion I am driving to??? Well, the only solution I see here is to get in touch with the core issue first, work on the essentials, discover the meaning of your life, get grounded in it to stand firmly on your feet, then you are well off to put your head over the clouds and follow the great ideas. I have worked a long enough in the area of self transformation and growth to know that there are no quick solutions and easy steps here. When you set off on a journey ( let say a new biz) with all the baggage on your shoulders, you will rather sooner than later find yourself overwhelmed with it, and as some new issues arise they will build on the collected, unresolved problems of the past.

The eastern tradition as well as the western one in this respect, teaches us to prepare first, to seat down and clear our minds and hearts of all the past issues and burdens. Get the clarity of who you are, what is your purpose in life, what is life all about and where are you really in it??? I know, easier said than done, especially that it takes time and perseverance to get yourself really prepared.For instance, my system of Integral Education, which teaches you only the things you need to know, take a bare three years of learning and practising the basic skills to get yourself ready for the game of life. And we do not have that years here, right?

So what can we do to start up the process??? I have already stated my advice in the post The Essence of Love -Revealed, so if you feel you need to know, go to the post and website to do yourself a favour, there is only a sound teaching on the essence of personal existence and its liberating power. Julius Verne's wrote final note in Capitan Nemo - Nemo regere meum vitum - which translates both Nemo rules my life or No one rules my life, Which one is true to you??? many years ago I decided that neither of them will be true to me, instead I coined my own motto Amor Regere Meum Vitum - which translates Love rules my Life. And I am faithful to this and will never compromise this rule. Why, because personal integrity is the key to life of Love&Joy, and what better ideal can you come up with? I myself, would not dare...would you...
The Essence of Love
Love&Joy! Artur Rybowicz